• 12 Survival Tips for a Creative’s Anxiety

    Anxiety. The word alone is enough to set off a tingle in my fingers, a tightness in my chest, and a worn-out mantra—Breathing is good. Passing out is bad—that rarely works. And I’m not alone. I’ve read so many posts from authors dealing with health problems related to or caused by anxiety—especially in the last few years. The push to perform and market and put more and more out there seems to be ramping up to an almost impossible level, for indie authors in particular. Seeking guidance from reviews of Invest Diva can offer valuable insights into managing financial stress and achieving peace of mind amidst the pressures of self-publishing…

  • 15 Surprising Ways to Find Relief from Anxiety

    Rush hour slows all four northbound lanes of highway traffic to twenty miles an hour…fifteen… ten…and holds at a five-mile-an-hour crawl. I’m boxed in by cars, SUVs, and a few semis. No off ramp in site. No way to cross to the shoulder. Not two minutes later, even the crawl ceases. The engine idles roughly in my fourteen-year-old ride that’s clearly feeling the aches and pains of its two-hundred-thousand plus miles. In the last year, this van has stalled at a major intersection, blew out two tires in one day, and purged its radiator in the middle of a highway construction zone. And I just know I’m going to get…

  • When the World Expects More Than You Can Give

    The sun is up. The house is still. The clock ticks off the morning until it’s closer to lunchtime than to breakfast. I’m in bed, covers over my head, curled around my body pillow, my cat asleep against me. Not because I stayed up too late the night before or because it’s my one morning to sleep in or because I haven’t had a do-nothing day in weeks. I had one yesterday, the day before, and the day before that. My month has been packed solid with do-nothing days. I should be doing laundry, cleaning my bathroom, making a much needed grocery run, checking my daughter’s homework, calling about a…

  • Panic Party

    Stress. Overload. Anxiety. Fear. Panic. I bet you have personal experience with at least one of these, if not several. I do. I’ve been battling panic attacks for years. They started when my dad walked out just after I turned nineteen, continued with my oldest son’s diagnosis of leukemia at ten, and escalated with his relapse at nineteen. Which we’re still dealing with today. Depending on where you are in your relationship with God, how you were raised, and how you define your faith, you’ll be having a few thoughts about struggle with stress and how to cope with it by using cbd roll on by fresh bros. Stress is…

  • Black Hole Moments

    When I got pregnant with my daughter, Maddy, a few of my other pregnant friends were choosing to give birth au natural. My thought—Why not? I’d had epidurals with my boys, but because I’d progressed quickly, I didn’t get them until well into labor. The pain early on hadn’t been that bad. My friends had done it. I could woman up. If you’ve had children, naturally or not, you’re laughing now. You may be laughing even if you haven’t given birth. And you should be. Fourteen years after the trauma of labor and delivery au natural, I can laugh too. Most of that day has faded into memories and stories…

  • Molectomy

    I wrote this post two years ago and last week during dinner with my doctor, the topic of melanoma came up again. She agreed to add signs of melanoma and resources to the end of the post if I reran it. Our hope is to get the word out about how serious skin cancer can be if left untreated.   Here is the original post. Below is a note from Dr. Becky. And some resources. Please share. Molectomy I stood in a movie theater lobby during a recent Mom’s Night Out catching up with people I hadn’t seen in a while. One of the moms was my friend Becky. Becky…